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Nationwide Military 2010 Wedding Gown Giveaway Event

Brides Across America was born on a realization that our country needs to do more to support our troops and their families. Bringing bridal and military together is a marriage made in heaven! Bridal salons are uniting across America to donate and giving away wedding gowns to qualified military brides.

The wedding industry is making a difference and giving brides to be the opportunity to find the wedding gown of their dreams as well as alleviate some of the financial stress of purchasing a wedding gown.

Each store will be preparing a select number of gown to give away. Most of the gowns are samples and overstocks and are worth approximately $500 to $3000. Dresses range in sizes from 4-22 and will be given away on a first-come, first serve basis as long as you qualify.

Brides Across America is dedicated to make military brides dreams come true while, anxiously waiting the arrival of their loved one from overseas.

Insure Your Wedding

Why WedSafe?

Since 1999, thousands of customers like you have trusted WedSafe® wedding insurance to protect their special days. Here's why:

• Wedding insurance specialists
• Affordable wedding day protection
• Instant Quote: upfront pricing with NO hidden charges
• Easy, secure purchase options
• Dedicated customer service support
• Underwritten by an "A" rated insurance company, Markel American
• Brought to you by Aon – the world's leading provider of insurance brokerage and risk management services.

Wedding Insurance Specialists – WedSafe has been in business since 1999 and is the top wedding insurer in the United States. Our dedicated employees are experts in wedding and insurance trends and have worked hard to make sure our products meet your need for financial protection as you invest in this special day.

Our Liability insurance also meets most wedding and reception venue requirements for liability and property damage coverage.

We believe no other wedding insurance solution currently on the market can offer you a superior combination of coverage quality, purchasing convenience, and affordability.

Instant Quote – We will never ask you to create a login, provide personal information, or complete a complicated form just to get a quote. To see how much it will cost to insure your wedding, just answer a few basic questions and get instant pricing. Complete your order online when you're ready, or contact our friendly customer service reps for more assistance.

• NO Hidden Charges – Unlike some insurance providers, WedSafe never charges extra for adding a venue as an "Additional Insured" on a Liability policy.

Easy Purchase Options – insuring your wedding is as easy as 1, 2, 3!

1. Get your instant Quote
2. Complete your purchase online through our secure application
3. Most policies can be downloaded right from the web site – your wedding is covered in a matter of minutes!

Our convenient online purchase process allows you to buy your insurance online using any major credit card. Policy documents are available for immediate download in most cases and we will also e-mail you a copy.

Our web application uses state-of-the art security measures and is monitored daily by independent web security certification service McAfee Secure, so you can feel comfortable purchasing WedSafe coverage online.

But if you prefer, you can contact customer service during office hours and complete an application over the phone. Or we'll mail or fax you an application. The choice is yours -- just let us know!

Underwritten by Markel American Insurance Company – Markel has a rating of "A (Excellent)" from A.M. Best.

Brought to you by Aon – The WedSafe program is offered through the world's leading provider of insurance brokerage services.. For decades, our parent company Aon Corporation (a Fortune 250 company) has handled the insurance needs of individuals and businesses worldwide.

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Hair Styles For Your Wedding Day

Click image to enlarge.	40's Glamour ASK FOR: Beautiful, bouncy curls for a lush, glamorous look—have your stylist make Veronica Lake waves with extra volume! To maintain the fullness all night, hair stylist Jeanie Syfu suggests applying Tresemmé 24 hour Body Mousse to towel dried hair before blow drying. For this hairstyle, a large-barrel curling iron is the key to the perfect-size curl. To complete your retro look, add a silk flower accessory. Gown by Galit Levi. Haircomb by Cheryl King Couture. Earrings by Carolee. Necklace by Roberta Chiarella.
Click image to enlarge.	Soft Focus ASK FOR: Loose, brushed-out waves that softly frame the face for a romantic look. Use Phyto Curl Defining Spray to prevent frizz and ensure that waves keep their shape. Gown by Kirstie Kelly Couture. Haircomb by Regina B. Earrings by Pam OlderDesigns.
Click image to enlarge.	High Drama ASK FOR: A chignon for a chic evening wedding. Pull hair into a high ponytail and tease for volume. Then bring hair back, pin at the base of the ponytail and gently brush the surface smooth. Hair accessory by Crislu. Earrings by Cheryl King for Icing Couture
Click image to enlarge.	New Twist ASK FOR: A feminine ’do—the ideal complement to a lacy dress. Have your stylist create a loose, thick French braid ending in a relaxed twist with soft wisps in back. Hairpins by Ti Adoro Jewelry. Earrings by Sophia & Chloe
Click image to enlarge.	Lift Off ASK FOR: A headband as a simple accent—ideal for a daytime celebration. “The key to this style is the perfect blow-out,” says Syfu. Have your stylist tease the roots to create lift. Gown by Janet Nelson Kumar. Headband by The Bridal Veil Co. Earrings by Ti Adoro Jewelry.
Click image to enlarge.	Pony Up ASK FOR: A gorgeous, high ponytail—a winning look that will work for day or for evening. “To help prevent flyaways, lightly spray your hairbrush with Tresemmé Tres Two Ultra Fine Mist before using it to sweep your mane back into a ponytail,” Syfu suggests. For the perfect finishing touch, accessorize with a pretty crystal barrette. Gown by Manalé Paris. Barrette by Regina B. Earrings by Sophia & Chloe.
Click image to enlarge.	Goddess Waves ASK FOR: Natural waves! Instead of using rollers, have your stylist twist and pin your hair into mini buns while damp. Let dry, then undo buns and finger-comb the hair into long flowing waves. Gown by Kirstie Kelly for Disney. Hairband by Stephanie Browne Australia.
Click image to enlarge.	Classic Chic ASK FOR: A sophisticated updo for evening. A cage veil adds whimsical charm. The key to a sleek, polished updo is frizz control and lots of shine—try René Furterer Spray Gloss. Veil by Artikal. Earrings by Pam Older Designs. Ring by Crislu.
Click image to enlarge.	Breezy Style ASK FOR: A relaxed, chic look for a beachy fete. Start with loose French braids along the sides; combine braids at the nape of the neck in an informal textured chignon. Gown by Galit Levi. Haircomb by Lori London. Earrings and necklace by Tacori for Epiphany

Patrick & Jennifer, Key West, FL

Transportation

Instead of renting a limo, go with a less costly option like a party van from a local car rental

company. Whether you decide to book a limo or a van or any other sort of transportation, do this at least six months in advance of the wedding in order to get the best deal.

Ask about any special wedding packages a car rental company may have. A typical one may offer three hours of service, a bottle of champagne and a tuxedo-bedecked driver for about $300 (depending on your location).

Remember that white limos will always cost you more than black or silver ones.

Don’t have the car that brings you to the ceremony wait for you all day—hourly rates will add up quickly. Have a different car pick you up later, after the reception.

Music For Your Event ?

Want a live band? Hire talented students from a local music school to perform at the

ceremony. Ask to hear them play—they may be just as good as professionals, and charge you less. Stay local: If a band has to travel for more than an hour, your costs will increase.

If you’re deciding whether to go with a five-piece band or a DJ, you'll save at least half by choosing the DJ. Or, why not be your own DJ? Download your favorite music and create playlists for the ceremony and the reception on your iPod. Hook it up to rented speakers and enjoy!

Negotiate a deal that you like. The closer you are to the wedding date (six months or less), the likelier it is that the band leader will work on your terms. Find out if one or two musicians can perform for the ceremony or cocktail hour as well.

If your band offers a singer who also plays an instrument, you’ll save money. And remember: You don’t need more than one of each instrument—one saxophone will do as well as two or three.

Insurance 101: Engagement Ring Insurance

Insurance 101: Engagement Ring Insurance

Putting a policy on your engagement ring may sound unromantic, but nothing's sweeter than peace of mind.

What It Is:

There are a few ways to insure your engagement ring. Ring insurance can be purchased as an extension (also called a "rider") for your renters' or homeowners' policy. Renters' and homeowners' policies cover the stuff in your home, but only up to a certain dollar value: Expensive, special items like engagement rings, art, and electronics are guaranteed through scheduled personal property coverage -- an insurance policy extension that covers particular items. Another option is to insure your ring through a company that specializes in jewelry insurance, which might offer more coverage than a standard homeowners' policy (replacing a lost or stolen ring rather than paying a set amount of cash, for instance).

All those wedding presents drastically increase the dollar value of your stuff. Make sure to adjust your homeowners' or renters' coverage to reflect that!

Who Needs It Most:

Any couple with jewelry that has high material or sentimental value -- whether your wedding and engagement rings cost $500 or $50,000, an insurance policy is a way of honoring not just their financial value but what they represent. The sentiment behind your rings is priceless, but the rings themselves can be replaced -- if they're insured -- in the event that something happens to them.

What to Know About How It Works:

You'll need to provide your receipts, as well as an appraisal (which costs a small fee; you can get an appraisal from a certified gemologist). And remember: If you move after the wedding, make sure your "ring rider" follows you. Some couples have the ring insured at the bride's house (or her parents') before the wedding, but forget to add it to the policy for their new home when they move in together.

If you don't have a renters' or homeowners' policy, there is an alternative way to insure your ring: Certain insurance companies offer policies through jewelers on individual pieces -- ask your jeweler if they work with an insurance company to offer ring insurance. These kinds of policies can vary widely company by company (usually a jeweler will offer a policy that's underwritten by smaller company), so ask specific questions about the level of coverage provided.

Questions To Ask Before You Choose a Policy:

• Is the ring covered if you lose it accidentally, or only if it's stolen?

• How will the company replace the ring -- with a check? Or will they require you to purchase a replacement through a specified jeweler?

• What if it's a vintage ring or other unique piece? How will the quality and size of your diamond -- and that of a replacement if needed -- be documented?

• Is the ring insured to full cost or a fraction of it?

• How will you need to prove the ring vanished if you make a claim?

• Are there any circumstances that aren't covered? (What if your ring flies off at the circus and gets trampled by elephants, for example?)

Average Cost:

The yearly cost to insure your ring is $1 to $2 for every $100 that it would cost to replace. In plain English, this means that if your ring would cost $9,000 to replace, you might expect to pay between $90 and $180 per year to insure it -- or slightly more in cities where the risk of theft is higher.

How To Get Your Cost Down:

Buy a vault or safe to keep jewelry in when it's not being worn. (You can also keep paperwork like appraisals in the safe, so you'll always know where it is if needed.)

What To Remember if You Only Remember One Thing:

When you shop for a "ring rider" policy, make sure to read the fine print: A good policy will cover every potentially ring-threatening situation from theft to damage to accidentally dropping it in the garbage disposal.

How to Get the Wedding Cake of Your Dreams

Sampling cake flavors and choosing from a rainbow of frosting colors make working with a top wedding cake designer a truly delicious task. To be sure you're just as satisfied with the end result, follow these steps to sweet success.

1. When looking for a cake designer, start early.
Begin your wedding cake designer search about three to six months before the wedding—even sooner if you want an in-demand pro. Some bakers' schedule their wedding cake commitments about a year in advance. Where do you begin your search? "Word of mouth is the most powerful tool," says Jan Kish of La Petite Fleur, in where they found their wedding cake. Many wedding caterers, reception sites, photographers and florists have favorite bakers.

2. Narrow your wedding cake search.
Many wedding cake designers showcase confections they've created on their web sites; you can also get an idea of whether you'll like their work from a phone conversation. Ask how they would define their wedding cake style. Is it traditional, simply elegant, modern, whimsical, intricate? Don't forget to ask for an estimated wedding cake price range per guest. Then, "Interview two to three bakers," advises Ron Ben-Israel of Ron Ben-Israel Cakes, in New York, NY.

In your initial meeting, look through the baker's portfolio of wedding cake designs, and double-check that the details you know you want—say, intricate sugar flowers—are part of his or her body of work. If not, does he show versatility and an experimental spirit? Does she have the resources and background to do what you want? Some small bakeries may not have the manpower or know-how to create the grand, geometrical wedding cake structures in which others specialize. Also, be sure to taste samples of the baker's work. "The flavor of the cake should be as good as any dessert you'd serve to guests," says Narcisa Vieira-Castillo of Cakes Unique, in Falls Church, Virginia. "Do not compromise taste for the look of the cake."

The major deciding factor? "A good personal connection is very important," says Ben-Israel. "You must be able to trust the person." The ideal wedding cake designer is someone whose personality sets you at ease and with whom you communicate well.

3. Keep talking with your wedding cake designer.
After you've booked your wedding cake designer, you will begin to create the cake. Go back to the baker's portfolio, and note the details you like and dislike. Show him photos of wedding cakes from magazines that have caught your eye. Provide the baker with as much information about your wedding as you can: the location, the level of formality, your wedding dress, the colors, the wedding flowers, the menu. You can even bring in your wedding invitations to show your pro—they may inspire her. "The whole idea is to customize the look of the cake," says Ben-Israel. "I often work with a swatch of the bride's dress, to replicate the lace."

During this process, taste four or five cake-and-filling combinations, to find your favorite. "Some flavors, like mango, are suitable for certain seasons, like summer," says Vieira-Castillo. "Others, like white chocolate with raspberry, are year-round favorites."

Wedding cake price will be based on the size of the cake, the amount of labor needed to create it and the cost of its ingredients. More experienced or reputable wedding bakers are usually pricier.

4. Get your wedding cake price in writing.
To ensure you get the exact wedding cake you want, check that all the details, including the date, place and time of the wedding, plus the style and flavors of the cake, are in your contract with the designer. Your baker should update the contract anytime you change your mind, and as you choose further details. Whether it's with a written description or a sketch, it should be clear to you exactly how your cake will look on the wedding day.

The Wedding Cake Dictionary

Buttercream is a smooth, creamy mix of butter, sugar and eggs that may be used to frost the entire cake or just for piping borders and decorations. It has a silky texture and a not-too-sweet taste often infused with colors and flavors like vanilla, chocolate, lemon, espresso, coconut or hazelnut. It’s a good value per slice, but it isn’t a good idea for a warm-weather outdoor wedding, as it may melt in the heat. Buttercream is also used as filling.

Cornelli is a freehand piping technique for decorating cakes in a lacy pattern.

Dotted Swiss is another piping technique; it forms tiny dots that resemble patterned fabric.

Dragees are edible silver- or gold-coated balls used for decoration.

Fondant is a matte-smooth icing that gives your cake a flawless finish, creating a canvas for intricate embellishments. This sweet sugar dough is rolled out like a pancake and wrapped around each layer on the cake. It doesn’t need to be refrigerated. But because elaborately decorated fondant-iced cakes are laborintensive, they tend to cost more.

Ganache is a sinfully rich dark-chocolate glaze poured over the entire cake.

Marzipan is a sweet, smooth paste made of ground almonds, sugar and egg whites. With its moist, chewy texture, it may be placed beneath other icings or used as the final icing itself. You’ll also see it colored and molded into flowers or other shapes as an alternative to sugarpaste.

Pulled or spun sugar is a boiled-sugar syrup manipulated (“pulled”) to create flowers and bows and other embellishments or spun into gossamer strands.

Royal icing, a combination of egg whites and sugar, is piped onto the cake and dries to a hard finish; it’s traditionally used to make leaves, flowers, lace and other edible decorations—not to cover the entire cake.

Sugarpaste, or gumpaste, a substance made of sugar, cornstarch and gelatin, produces those amazingly authentic-looking flowers, fruits and leaves, among other whimsical shapes, that decorate many wedding cakes. Unlike fondant, sugarpaste hardens after it dries.

Create your own scene-stealing moments in a dress that's pretty as a picture. Bonus: They're all priced under $850

Special Moment

Nothing says romance like an A-line tulle ballgown. We especially love the rosette on the sweetheart taffeta bodice, while the wide sash encircling the natural waist creates a most alluring silhouette.

Gown, about $330, by Camille La Vie. Headband by Jennifer Behr. Earrings and bracelets by Melissa Joy Manning. Necklace by Prismera Design.
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Sweet Kisses

What could bewitch him more than this dress, with its shapely ruched bodice and flowing chiffon skirt? Soft gathers at the waist, cinched with a detachable beaded belt, lead to a dreamy sweep train.

Gown, about $620, by Forever Yours. Earrings by Lia Sophia. Bracelet by Rosena Sammi Jewelry.

On him: Sunglasses by Liz Claiborne. Jacket and shirt by Calvin Klein for Men’s Wearhouse. Pants, this story, by Lilly Pulitzer. Sandals, this story, by J. Crew.
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Jump for Joy

You’ll be sure to take the leap in this A-line chiffon gown with an illusion chapel train. A ruched empire waist and detachable one-shoulder floral strap send the charm factor soaring, while the corset lace-up back is certain to flatter your figure.

Gown, about $700, by Destinations by Maggie Sottero. Fedora by David Steele by Albrizio Millinery. Earrings and gold bracelets by Melissa Joy Manning. Silver bracelets by Leslie Danzis. Ring by Prismera Design.

On him: Shirt by Hickey Freeman.
wedding dress by val stefani


Sea of Love

Laid-back sophistication is all yours in this subtly sexy silk chiffon A-line dress with a V-neck bodice and natural waist. Delicate gathering lends the gown a rich textural feel.

Gown, about $800, by Val Stefani. Earrings by A. Jaron Fine Jewelry. Brooch and bangle by Ben-Amun by Isaac Manevitz. Sevenstrand bracelet by Amanda Sterett Jewelry Design.

On him: Fedora by David Steele by Albrizio Millinery. Shirt by TheTieBar.com. Suspenders by 1-800-MyTuxes. Bouquet by Dunkhan Chochanchapai, Florist at Raffles Canouan.
wedding dress by mori lee


Perfect Day

A chiffon dress with an asymmetrically gathered bodice, detachable straps and a flowing skirt defines this season’s free-spirited romantic look.

Gown, about $230, by Mori Lee by Madeline Gardner. Earrings by Amanda Sterett Jewelry Design. Necklace by Nicole Miller. Bracelet by Emily Elizabeth Jewelry. Ring by Robindira Unsworth.
wedding dress by alfred angelo


Curve Appeal

This one-shoulder taffeta gown wins his attention with its sexy silhouette, while crystal beading at the shoulder and asymmetrical draping across the bodice ensure memorable style.

Gown, about $500, by Alfred Angelo. Earrings by Melissa Joy Manning. Necklace by Ben-Amun by Isaac Manevitz. Cuff by Pono.

On him: Jacket by Hickey Freeman.

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EXTRA CEREMONY DECOR: Skip altar flowers, pew decorations, swags of fabric and a custom-designed aisle runner. The site is probably lovely as is.

VANITY RECEPTION DECOR: Do you really need to splurge on having your names spelled out in roses on the lawn? Do you need silk table runners, imprinted with your names and wedding date? No. Some couples have their custom-designed monogram projected on the sides of the tent and on the dance floor. If you don’t want to allot the money for lighting equipment, then don’t. Instead, create a glowing ambience with clusters of candles and votives on your tables.

AN ORNATELY DESIGNED CAKE: Don’t spend hundreds of dollars on sugarpaste flowers, butterflies, piped-on pearls or a replica of the lace pattern on your dress. The amount of labor the cake requires will determine its cost, so keep the design simple and sweet.

FANCY-SHMANCY INVITATIONS: Check out a discount site like invitations4sale.com for 40% off, or use software and paper from mountaincow.com to make your own printed items for much less.

HIGH-END TRANSPORTATION: It’s expensive to rent limousines—especially white limos—classic cars and party buses, and overtime charges can pile up. Instead, decorate your own or your friends’ cars, convertibles or even minivans, for fun rides to the ceremony and reception. Or just hire one limo for the two of you and and one for your parents.

SPECTACULAR ENTERTAINMENT: Do you need the most expensive chamber group in town? Of course not. DJs are less expensive than bands, but if you do want a live band, look for one with three musicians who can play different instruments. Or program your iPod with your favorites—just make sure the venue is equipped with good speakers.

FRIVOLOUS FAVORS: Treat your guests to edibles, like cookies or chocolates, with DIY labels. Or try $2 packets of flower seeds from Home Depot or Lowes. Making charitable donations in guests’ names is a tasteful and cost-effective solution to what to give.

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15 Wedding Details You Don't Need to Worry About | Wedding Planning, Ideas & Etiquette | Bridal Guide Magazine

1. The Wedding Guest List
The guest list’s size is the biggest determinant of your total wedding cost, so keeping expenses trim is of the utmost importance. But if you’re worried that you’ll offend people by not inviting them to your wedding, stop now. Of course you wouldn’t leave out your nearest and dearest, and anyone else you’re considering would likely be flattered to be invited but not bothered if they’re not (think: the group of college friends who live on the other side of the country whom you’ve not seen in five years). Your best bet to tighten your list is to make some wedding invitation list rules (for you, your fiancé and both families) and stick to them. That is, first cousins, but not second. Spouses and live-in or serious partners, but not random dates. Your boss, but not your whole office. One caveat: don’t split up groups, says Syd Sexton, owner of Syd Sexton Event Productions, in Denver. “If you can invite your office gang, great. But if you can’t, don’t just invite one of them.”

2. The Wedding Flowers
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The first time you gazed upon your wedding reception site, you saw veritable fields of flowers, right? It’s no surprise, though, that piles and piles of blooms can ratchet up your costs quickly. Sexton notes that you don’t need to fill every corner of your venue with flowers for a lovely look. Work with your wedding florist to use the freshest, most in-season blooms to their strategic advantage, then fill in the rest of the decor with budget-friendly candles or greenery. If you just adore flowers, check out botanical gardens in your area—you’ll have a bounteous backdrop of blooms at your disposal (for not a penny more).

3. The Wedding Reception Cocktail Hour
One cocktail-hour trend these days is to overload (read: over-impress) guests with everything from sushi bars to towering displays of cheese, to passed hors d’oeuvres to pasta and carving stations. But there’s no reason to make this a blowout, says Mindy Weiss, celebrity wedding planner and coauthor with Lisbeth Levine of The Wedding Book: The Big Book for Your Big Day. “Keep it short and sweet—this ensures that you’ll need less food—and have your hors d’oeuvres hand-passed instead of having stations. This limits the amount of food you’ll need.” Stick with just enough food to keep guests from getting too tipsy too early in the evening, advises Meghan Walls, owner of Meghan Walls Events in New York City. A pretty display of cheese, fruit and crackers will do just fine.

4. The Wedding Reception Dessert Table
“Unless you’re having a dessert reception, you don’t need to go overboard on sweets. Wedding cake is so spectacular that offering a dessert buffet, a crêpes suzette station and mini ice cream cones is just excessive,” says Levine. “After all, you don’t want to weigh guests down with so many sweets during your wedding reception that they don’t have the energy to get out on the dance floor!”

5. The Drinks
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First of all, says Weiss, feel free to skip the champagne toast. It’s no longer considered a must-do at weddings. Simply toast with whatever wine you already have on the table. As for your bar options, remember this is your party, so it’s entirely up to you, not your hard-partying college friends or the snooty aunts who prefer top-shelf martinis. Work with your reception site or caterer to create a bar you can afford, whether that means offering only beer, wine, water and soft drinks; a signature drink at the cocktail hour and red and white wines with dinner; or less-expensive liquors for mixed drinks rather than pricey brand names. Also, keep mixed drinks as simple as possible: The more varieties of liquor that are involved in assembling the drink, the more you will pay. “If you’re hiring an off-premise caterer and can buy your own alcohol, you can save even more by shopping around and being able to return unopened bottles,” notes Walls. Instruct the wait staff not to automatically top off guests’ wineglasses and, finally, arrange to have your bar closed an hour before the end of the party. You’ll be doing the drivers a favor.

6. The Five-Course Wedding Reception Meal
We know—you’re worried about wedding guests going home either hungry or unhappy with your food choices. Those worries have caused many brides and grooms to go down the path of offering too much—up to seven courses—and paying too much for it. If you’re looking to cut costs, “eliminate one course in the meal, and just serve an appetizer and an entrée,” says Walls. You can also stick to offering one or two choices for the entrée. Or instead of offering chicken, steak or salmon entrées, assemble a plate that combines, say, a few grilled shrimp and medallions of beef, plus a creative array of vegetables. (You may save 40 percent or more on your wedding reception, because your chef will know exactly what to buy for your head count.) Once you find a caterer that you really trust, you can work with him to find the most economical options. Rest assured quality always trumps quantity, and that no one will end up stopping at McDonald’s on the way home.

7. The Wedding Invitations
Engraved or letterpress wedding invitations are the ultimate, yes. And heavy cardstock, of course. But all of this is very costly. Choosing an unusual color, paper or design may also raise your wedding invitation costs more than you’re prepared for. If you’re a DIY-er (or if you know someone who is), design and make your own wedding invitations by hand or on a high-quality computer printer. Some calligraphic fonts are so good that it’s really hard to tell they’re not done by hand.

8. The Wedding Cake
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A five-tier wedding cake tower covered with intricate sugarpaste flowers, ribbons, butterflies and bows? Gorgeous, yes. Necessary, no. The more elaborate the design, the more your wedding cake will cost. Ask your baker for options to keep the cost down, such as serving a smaller, tiered display cake and supplementing with a sheet cake that is brought out from the kitchen after the official cake cutting; doing less-pricey cupcakes in your wedding colors (always a big guest favorite!); or choosing less exotic fillings and less elaborate sugarpaste designs. You also may want to consider decorating the confection with fresh flowers instead of sugarpaste, as they cost less but give a luxe look. Another option: Instead of a specialty baker, hire a local one to make your cake—more affordable and guests will be just as happy!

9. The Transportation
Will anyone care if you don’t show up to your wedding or reception in a white limousine? No. White limos cost more than black or silver ones, so you may decide to cross that off your list. If you do hire a limousine, don’t have the car that took you to the ceremony wait for you all day—book another to come for you later (you’ll save on hourly rates). Do ask your limo company about wedding packages—they might have just the right one for you.

10. Wedding Favors
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The experts don’t mince words: “Unless the favor is food—like some nice chocolates the guests can eat right then—it’s a wedding expense you can forgo,” says Walls. Weiss agrees. “Brides feel they have to give favors, but this should be seen as an extra. I am a huge fan of making donations to charities instead. You can do this and write an adorable note to each guest (and leave it at the place settings), in which you let them know you’ve donated in their honor.”

11. The Wedding Reception Venue
You’ve found out the price per person at your chosen reception venue, and it’s just plain too high. Don’t worry (and don’t overspend)—negotiate. But some brides are shy or they think this is tacky. “Uh-uh,” says Sexton. “In a tough economic climate, vendors expect it. Be honest about your budget, and ask, ‘What can you do for me with this amount?’ Or ask, ‘I see this is your lowest package price. Can you do a little better?’ ” If you are willing to play with days (a Friday or Sunday, say), times of day or seasons, you can work out a better deal. Still unconvinced that you should speak up? “The worst they can do is say no,” reasons Walls. And even if negotiating doesn’t get you a drastic cost reduction, you may get some extras thrown in (like trays of cookies for the tables, or top-shelf liquor for the price of generic brands). Remember: Wedding reception vendors want your business as much as you want a nice wedding.

12. The Wedding Rehearsal Dinner
You’ve already planned a major event—your wedding reception. You need not make the rehearsal dinner a mini wedding by booking an expensive restaurant or another catering place. “If you can, have it in the home of someone willing to host,” says Sexton. (Hint: perhaps someone wants to make this their gift to you!). “Do something casual, like a backyard barbecue. Or ask your wedding caterer if he or she is willing to cater it in a private home for a lower fee, as part of your wedding package.”

13. The Linens
On an unlimited budget, specialty linens add sparkle and a special touch. But the standard white or off-white table coverings included at most reception sites have kept their classic good looks! Perk up the tables with napkins tied with ribbons or rent stylish napkin rings.

14. Wedding Shoes
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Focus your energy, your worries and your money on your dress—not your wedding shoes, advises Levine. “Why spend hundreds of dollars on footwear you’ll wear for a single day? Seriously—if you have a gorgeous gown, an amazing hairstyle and a flawless face, no one is going to be examining what’s going on below your ankles.” Find inexpensive (but comfortable) wedding shoes that complement your bridal gown, and leave it at that.

15. The Impression
Are you worried about wowing your guests? Don’t. Too many couples think it’s their obligation to dazzle their friends at their wedding with every extra on the books. “But all guests really want is to feel taken care of and special,” says Walls, “which you can do in little ways.” For example, be sure your wedding has good “flow,” without an uncomfortable time gap between ceremony and reception. Be sure your traveling guests have little amenities in their rooms, and that older guests don’t have far to walk. Weiss likes to leave milk and homemade cookies for wedding guests at the end of the night. “It makes everyone feel loved,” she says. “And isn’t that the way you want them to feel, when all is said and done?”

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Wedding Dresses

Here are just a few wedding dresses I really like. Very elegant and striking.

The cascading scallops of duchesse satin in the back of this waist-cinching, shape-flaunting tall drink of water make for an exquisitely grand exit. "Lalique" gown, Matthew Christopher. Drop earrings, Carolee LUX Collection.

"Hayworth" gown, Ines Di Santo. Engagement ring, Chad Allison.

Move over, pristinely plaited tiers of fabric. This season's soft, feathery folds have little in common with the well-defined ruffles of seasons past. The new incarnation of easy, breezy tulle and clear paillettes perfectly showcases this drop-waist gown's standout shape. "Fashionista" gown, by Kenneth Pool, from Amsale, amsale.com, 212-583-1700. Pearl necklaces: 125-inch rope, Honora, honora.com; five strand, Mastoloni, mastoloni.com. Ring, Varna, varna.com.


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"Tropical" Bridal Bouquets

Have you ever wondered what flowers are used in a "Tropical" Bridal Bouquet? Most don't know what "Tropical" flowers are. Just to name off a few, Orchids of any kind, Birds of Paradise, Ginger, Lilies, Anthuriums and Roses even though they really are not considered "Tropical" but often seen in most bouquets.

Here a few examples of "Tropical" Bridal Bouquets:






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An alternative to a traditional bridal bouquet

Try this as an alternative to the traditional bridal bouquet.

A seashell bouquet of Babylonia Spirata, Murex Virgenues, Murex Indivia, brown Chullas and Strawberry Strombus. The arrangement was wrapped in brown satin ribbon and tied with baker's twine.

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Arrive In Style

When it comes to booking your wedding wheels, you can't go wrong by hiring some sleek, shiny limousines to shuttle you and your bridal party about. But consider your other options: You can have your attendants transported by a party bus or trolley, while you and your Dad ride to the ceremony in a vintage Rolls-Royce or even a private yacht in The Florida Keys . Later, you and your new hubby can be whisked away from the reception in a flashy sports car. Whatever type of vehicle you choose, be sure to follow these "road rules."

Start Your Engines

Make your transportation arrangements at least six months before your wedding day. If you're getting married during prom season—late March through late June—consider allowing eight to twelve months.

Who Needs a Ride?

Limo companies can help you determine how many wedding day vehicles you should book, but here are some guidelines: Standard limos seat four to six passengers; stretch limos hold eight to 10 people; and some stretch SUVs and Hummers can seat up to 20. Remember that you'll need to arrange transportation for three "legs" of your day.

For travel to the wedding ceremony, secure one vehicle for yourself and your bridesmaids and another for the groom and his groomsmen. If you want to ride to the wedding ceremony alone with your Dad, book an additional vehicle for that purpose; your wedding attendants can ride by themselves.

For the journey from the ceremony to the reception, have at least two of these limos on hand: You and your husband will ride in one and your bridal party will travel in the other (some bridesmaids and groomsmen might prefer to ride separately, with their spouses, dates or friends). After the reception, you'll need just one limo, to transport you and your husband to the place where you'll be spending the night.

Some brides and grooms also provide a shuttle service for their out-of-town guests, in order to prevent drinking and driving.

Questions To Ask

When you call prospective limo companies, be sure to ask the representative:

Do you have liability insurance? If not, consider going with another company.

What's the fee? Most companies charge by the hour—approximately $75 to $125 per car, depending on the size and color (in general, white limos tend to be 10 percent more expensive than black ones).

What will the chauffeur be wearing? A suit-and-tie dress code is standard at most companies, but you can request that your driver don a tuxedo, which looks much better in photos.

Do you have package deals? A standard one includes three hours of service, a tuxedo-wearing chauffeur, a bottle of champagne, a red carpet to roll out when you pull up to the reception site and a "Just Married" sign. Cost: approximately $300.

Do you have any references? When you contact former satisfied clients, ask them for the name of their driver so that you can request him or her specifically.

Pay a Visit

Once you've booked a service, make an appointment to check out the company's fleet in person. This way, you can gauge the quality of the vehicles (as opposed to relying on web site photos) and select the exact model you want to book. If you spot a vehicle you especially like, jot down the license-plate number so that you can have it reserved for your big day. Ask if you can meet your driver, to gauge his or her personality and level of professionalism. Find out if he or she smokes, too, because even if the driver lights up outside, the unpleasant smell of tobacco will linger in the car—and on your hair and clothes.

Smooth Operation

To ensure that everything goes according to plan, email the limo company or your wedding planner detailed directions to all wedding locations; just to be safe, have copies on hand on the big day. Call ahead to confirm all of your pickup times (you can certainly ask one of your bridesmaids to assist you with this), especially the hour you expect to be taken to the wedding ceremony. To that end, make every effort to be prompt—you don't want to keep your wedding guests waiting!

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Who Officiates Your Wedding Ceremony?

Booking your officiant and your ceremony site is generally done about 11 months before the wedding. If you want a religious service but don’t belong to a particular church, know that some churches will allow nonmembers to marry there.

Also, some clergy people will agree to marry a couple at a nonreligious site. Since your officiant will be the “master of ceremonies,” it’s important that you both feel comfortable with him or her. Ask these key questions:

1. Is he or she licensed by the state to perform marriages? Can you see the license?
2. What are the fees for the officiant’s services and for the use of the site? (Expect a fee ranging anywhere from $100 to $600 for the ceremony.)
3. Is your officiant open to personalizing your ceremony? Will he or she spend time getting to know the two of you? Can he or she suggest music, readings and ways to incorporate family and friends into the service?
4. What documents must you present (e.g., marriage license, divorce decrees)?
5. For a religious ceremony: Does the officiant require you to take pre-marriage classes or counseling before the ceremony?
6. Is it permissible for the two of you to write your own vows?
7. Are there any music restrictions? (Some churches allow only religious pieces to be performed.)
8. Can the photographer and videographer work in the sanctuary?
9. Are there any décor restrictions at your ceremony site? Also, are decorations or props, like an aisle runner or pew ribbons, provided? How much time is available for setup and cleanup?
10. Is there another wedding planned right before or after your ceremony? (You don’t want to feel pressed for time.)
11. When will the wedding rehearsal be held? (Book the time and confirm at a later date.)

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What a successful day in Ft. Lauderdale today. After trying on six different wedding dresses, my Bride found the WOW dress. She looks beautiful in it as well as the dress looks beautiful on her. Thank you to the ladies at David's Bridal for all their help. What a busy weekend. Tomorrow is the Groom's day, time to find his outfit for the wedding. It's too soon to show the wedding dress but stick around, pictures will be posted after the ceremony. This is going to be a simple yet elegant beach wedding.

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Taming the Big, Bad Budget

Taming the Big, Bad Budget

Don’t let the economy scare you—cutting expenses too deeply can put your wedding at risk. Nowadays, couples are rightfully concerned about wedding expenses—and many brides and grooms are shaving large amounts from their budgets. But our advice is: Look before you trim. Don’t shortchange your dream by sacrificing too much in the most important areas of your big-day celebration. Here, we take a peek at each wedding category and list ways to keep costs down—without going overboard.

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Unique Favors & Gifts For All Occasions

Soiree Key West, Inc. has now established an online store of favors and gifts for all occasions.

Welcome, and thank you for visiting our store-your complete resource for fabulous favors and gifts for special occasions and special deliveries. Inside, you’ll find the perfect favors for weddings, baby showers, bridal showers, girls’ night out and more. Plus, we offer the most adorable, presentation-ready gifts designed especially to delight both babies and new moms. We’re sure you’ll find something perfect in our treasure trove of ideas. Enjoy!


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Blessing Stones for your wedding

Create a Connection

Planner Jennifer Anderson says a couple she worked with asked each guest to hold a smooth stone during their wedding, make a wish for them, and then place the stone into a communal vessel. The newlyweds plan to incorporate the stones into their garden to remind them of those who shared their day.

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Enter our Proposal of a Lifetime contest

Enter our Proposal of a Lifetime contest

Got a deeply romantic, wildly funny, or downright strange story of a marriage proposal? Maybe it happened to you, to your sister or even to a friend of a friend once removed. It could even be the absolute truth or pure fiction. In any case, we'd love to hear it. Just submit your story, and you'll automatically be entered for a chance to win $5,000.

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A guide for the Groom

For those guys that don't know what the next steps are after asking your lady to marry you, check out the book "Groomology: What every (smart) Groom needs to know before the wedding". Purchase the paperback book on Amazon.

The ring's on her finger, her to-do list is growing, and her mood is frantic. What's a groom to do? Let Groomology show him how becoming a partner in the wedding process can make the whole event more enjoyable, meaningful, and memorable. Time and time again, soon-to-be husbands only tackle what the bride-to-be has told them to do. Groomology outlines these traditional groom's duties but goes a step further to instruct grooms in the art of getting involved.

Grooms Will Learn The Best Strategies For A Happy Bride, Including:

• Being Sensitive To the Bride's Needs and Worries
• Taking Over Tasks the Bride Doesn't Want
• Understanding How Much Work Goes Into It All
• Reducing Her Stress
• Giving an Opinion
• Letting Go of an Opinion
• Being Creative
• The One Thing He Needs to Do
• The Benefit of Venting
• When Doing More Is Less

Complete with helpful resources, a guide to bridal party responsibilities and etiquette, tips on hiring vendors, wedding statistics, and more, Groomology is sure to keep couples happy throughout the tricky planning process.

Bonus: Including 100 romantic ways to reduce planning stress!

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Vince Vaughn marries Kyla Weber

This weekend Vince Vaughn married his girlfriend Kyla Weber in Lake Forest, Illinois. Vaughn, 39, proposed to Weber, 31, a Canadian real estate agent last Valentine's Day.The couple were married before family and friends in a house at Lake Forest Academy. The is the first marriage for Weber and Vaughn.

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